Showing posts with label grey. Show all posts
Showing posts with label grey. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 27, 2018

Getting Old Early.




Young people making a fad of grey hair miss the point of direction. One may play grown up as a child, or doctor when little, but adulthood is for the game of existence moving through the stages as processes. One cannot pretend to have earned a symbol of maturity dyeing one's hair. The law of growth has its passages.... - Gregory E. Woods, Keeper of Stories 




Jessica Lange, at 64!


Kathie Lee Gifford preparing for a segment!


a Lady has her way of being one.





Friday, December 22, 2017

the Ladies know!






"The poise and the elegance of this lady high above ground on a ski lift is out of place, but it changes the view of the mountains! This is the skill of beauty: alteration!" - Dawn Wolf, Keeper of Stories 9/17/17 





"The poise of a Woman isn't always indicative of a Lady. It is a start."  
- Dawn Wolf, Keeper of Stories



La femme noir de Cote d' Ivoire (Ivory Coast) est si belle. 



Ladies are few in comparative numbers to the crude masculine femininity fashionable in recent decades past. When found it is often held in some type of contempt by many Black women... - Dawn Wolf, Keeper of Stories 



Sunday, March 5, 2017

Getting Older in the Spotlight!


Nicole Scherzinger flaunted her midsection in a Topshop Unique leather studded crop top
and pencil skirt, zippered Etro ankle boots and Lara Bohinc jewelry!!!!



Nicole Scherzinger in Victoria Beckham!!!!


Nicole Scherzinger in Victoria Beckham at the age of 49 !!!!



Nicole Scherzinger by Tom Dymond!!!! (2013)


Friday, February 12, 2016

What Do We Tell?


http://keeperofstories.blogspot.com/

photographer danial gowans of a woman seated in circle 
November 24, 2014
 

Here Are Six Ways To Avoid A Dating Disaster
By Dr. Sinclair Grey III


Dating the wrong person can be a disaster. Think about it for a moment. You spend time with the person, you try to get to know them beyond the surface, and you even hope they are on the same relational page as you. Then all of sudden, you find yourself asking the question, ‘what was I thinking?’ ‘How could I have made such a huge mistake?’ Don’t feel bad because many people have gone through this scenario. What you thought and hoped for simply wasn’t. As the old adage goes, ‘you were dating their representative until the real person showed up.’

Let’s face it – no one likes to have their time wasted. No matter how young or old you are, the idea of playing games only to get disappointed later is not a good feeling. The beginning stages (usually within the first three to four months of any relationship) is exciting. You’re getting to know the other person and it seems great. Talking/texting on the phone for hours seems like everything is going well. In addition to that, going out and having so much in common can put a person in a state of euphoria. Check this out – just when all of this is happening, the antenna’s come down and the guards are lowered.

Many people make the mistake and overlook certain things they are important when companionship and conversation are the dominating factors. Because of that, too many people become victims of what I like to call ‘dating disaster.’

Here are a few suggestions I would like to share with you about avoiding ‘dating disasters.’

1. Ask the person about their goals in life. If they don’t have any goals (short-term and long-term) then they are not the person for you

2. Ask them about world affairs. A person who is not capable of discussing current events won’t be about to participate in conversations that are relevant to what’s happening in today’s world

3. Listen to what’s being said and not said. You don’t have to be analytical but you have to discern within your spirit what’s real and what’s hidden

4. Know what you’re looking for. In other words, have realistic expectations and never settle for settling. It doesn’t matter how they make you feel in the beginning, sustainability is the issue

5. Don’t trust them with your most prized possession – your body. When sex enters the equation, emotions can get twisted. Make sure the person can stimulate your intellect before they can stimulate your body. If all the person talks about is physical intimacy without a long-term commitment, that’s a red flag. With all of the STD’s being transmitted, why put yourself in harms way? Please understand this – sexual intimacy isn’t just physical; it’s spiritual

6. Don’t feel pressured by others to be in a relationship. Family and friends have a tendency to encourage others to be in a relationship, especially if they’re in one themselves. Understand this – you have to live for yourself not others

Just to reiterate, no one wants to experience a dating disaster. That’s why it’s best to take it slow in the beginning so that you get to know the person for who they are. No matter how long it takes, you deserve to be happy and if you have questions about a persons sincerity and authenticity, then you have every right to take your time. YOU ARE SPECIAL AND BECAUSE OF YOUR WORTH, IT’S BEST TO TAKE YOUR TIME. 

traditional couple

 

Sunday, August 30, 2015

Tuesday, April 21, 2015

Gittin' GRAY



Black American woman with gray hair



10 Head-Scratching Facts About Gray Hair



1. HOW HAIR TURNS GRAY


Hair grows in a follicle, a bulb-like tube on your scalp. The average head has 100,000 to 150,000 follicles, each operating independently from the others. Hair in its basic, unpigmented state is white. It gets its color from melanin, a pigment that also determines skin color. Two types of melanin, eumelanin (dark brown or black) and phaeomelanin (reddish yellow), combine to make all the hair colors. One hypothesis for why hair goes gray is that aging slows or stops the hair from accessing the melanin, so it comes out gray, silver, or white instead.


2. HAIR MAY BLEACH ITSELF FROM THE INSIDE OUT


New research reveals that graying may be from a build-up of hydrogen peroxide in the hair cell, which causes the hair to bleach itself on the inside. Cells naturally have a small amount of hydrogen peroxide in them, but it’s kept in check by an enzyme called catalase, which converts the hydrogen peroxide to oxygen and water. As we age, the body produces less catalase, so the hydrogen peroxide builds up and, according to the New York Times, blocks “the normal synthesis of melanin, the natural pigment in hair.” Thus the hair turns gray, giving new meaning to the phrase “peroxide blonde.”


3. GRAYING IS CAUSED BY HEREDITY


When you’re born, your genes are already hardwired for when and how your hair will turn gray. This includes premature graying—people who gray before age 30 usually do so because it runs in the family. For most of us, graying starts in middle age. Dermatologists go by the 50/50/50 rule of thumb: by age 50, half the population will have at least 50 percent gray hair—although a worldwide survey showed that number was much lower, with only 6 to 23 percent of people half gray by age 50.


4. RACE IS ALSO A FACTOR


In a related matter, race also determines when you’re likely to gray. In general, Caucasians gray in their mid-30s, Asians in their late-30s, and African Americans in their 40s.


5. PLUCKING ONE GRAY HAIR WILL NOT CAUSE THREE TO GROW IN ITS PLACE


This old wives’ tale is a myth. Each follicle can contain only one hair, and plucking it won’t make it able to produce multiple hairs. Furthermore, what you do to one follicle has no effect on the ones around it. That said, excessive plucking isn’t a good idea—it can damage the follicles and even stop hair production in that area altogether.


Mayor Marion Barry & Effie Barry



6. STRESS PROBABLY PLAYS A ROLE IN GRAYING


When President Obama went gray his first term in office, was it stress, age, or a combination of both? Scientists aren’t sure. While some researchers say that your genes alone are responsible for gray hair, others say that there seems to be a connection between graying and stress, just no direct link to prove it. In 2011, a study by Nobel Prize winner Robert Lefkowitz discovered that long-term productions of the body’s fight or flight response—the instinctive ability to mobilize energy in response to a threatening situation—can damage your DNA and cause premature aging, including graying hair.


7. TRAUMA WON’T MAKE YOU GO GRAY OVERNIGHT

Another myth is that a major shock will cause your hair to suddenly turn gray. This is sometimes called the Marie Antoinette Syndrome because the French queen’s hair supposedly turned white the night before she was beheaded. But hair, once grown, doesn’t change color, so waking up with a head of white hair isn’t going to happen. Although there is a very rare condition where all of the colored hairs can fall out, leaving only white hairs behind, the simpler answer is that Marie Antoinette probably just took off her wig.


8. SMOKING MAY CAUSE YOU TO PREMATURELY GRAY

Multiple studies have linked smoking with premature aging, which includes early graying. In 2013, a study found that there is a significant relationship between smoking and gray hair in people under 30. In fact, “smokers were two and half times more prone to develop PHG” or premature hair graying.


9. BODY HAIR ALSO TURNS GRAY

All your body hair—chest, nose, pubic, etc.—can turn gray. Body hair tends to gray at a different rate than the hair on your head, which is why some men can have gray beards and brown hair, or visa versa. By the way, dyeing gray pubic hair is a thing.


10. SOMEDAY, RESEARCH MAY LEAD TO A GRAY HAIR CURE

Scientists in Europe discovered a breakthrough with vitiligo, a disease where skin loses pigment and develops white patches. Like hair, vitiligo is caused by “massive oxidative stress via accumulation of hydrogen peroxide,” causing the skin to bleach itself from the inside out. Researchers have successfully treated the discolored skin and eyelashes of vitiligo patients, which has led some to predict a potential cure for gray hair. But while the idea sounds promising, history is full of tonics and creams claiming to cure gray hair. As far as we know, none of them have worked yet.




gray haired Black American woman
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Wednesday, October 15, 2014

THINK, then step


Be Careful of What You Step In
By Dr. Sinclair Grey III 


Are you in something that's causing you a lot of headache, pain, and/or disappointment? In other words, you didn't plan on getting into something disgusting but you find yourself in deep 'doo-doo.' Unfortunately, whenever you find yourself in a messy situation, it can run you down, wear you out, and tamper with your emotions. However, the good news is that you don't have to stay in something that's funky. Let me make it plain. If what you're in is causing you frustration and aggravation, you need to get out of it. The more you stay in it, the more it'll affect you.

About five years ago, I had the unfortunate experience of stepping in dog stuff. Needless to say, I was upset for two reasons - a dog owner refused to pick up mess left behind and I wasn't paying attention to where I was going. Whenever you neglect to pay attention to where you're going, you'll find yourself stepping in stuff that's foul and disgusting. I want you to get into your spirit if you're not careful about where you're going in life, you'll step into abusive relationships, recreational use of alcohol and drugs, illicit sexual relations to prove your worth, and unfulfilling jobs, just to name a few. Stepping into the wrong thing can make your life miserable.

In this spiritual journey, you need to know that God has given you what you need to get out of any mess, funk, or crazy situation. You have a right to leave anything that's detrimental to your spiritual temple. Don't make the mistake of defending or compromising with mess. You're better than any funk around you. If you find yourself in a filthy mess, you need to ask God for direction, repent of anything you've done to add to the mess, and make up your mind that you're going to be more cognizant of stuff you get involved in. It's easy stepping into mess, but often times, it's much harder getting out.

The Bible says, "Cast all your anxiety on him because He cares for you. Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you know that your brothers throughout the world are undergoing the same kind of sufferings." Please don't miss this. Each day you must be prayed up, hooked up, and in right relationship with God. In a real sense, when you allow God to order your steps, you'll keep away from stepping into stuff that's contaminating. That's my word for you. As long as God's leading you, you're going in the right direction. Lean on Him and He'll take you where you need to go. 7.19.14


diving together off board - Noëllie de Casterlé