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"This is true Gregory, women many times are just sex objects. But in this case I not only blame the man, I also blame the women for allowing themselves be treated in that way. Don't tell me that a woman doesnt know when she is being treated like a sex object. They do know, but they seem to like it because the more men like her, the more she thinks she is all that. They do not take in consideration that the men are just using them, they just think that they are hot.
Women and men get married after the divorce, it seems that they have the woman or man waiting around the corner just to marry them. For myself I rather be married than to live with a man. That way we both have the same rights.
As far as women being scorned because they stay with a man all through their life, they only get scorned when they stayed with an abusive mate just for the sake of marriage. I believe in divorce because sometimes the man that you have or had was becoming the ruler of the house and wont even let the wife speak. I believe that the man should be the leaader of the house but he should always discuss what he plans are together with his wife, when men start ignoring what a woman needs to say, I feel it is time for him to go one way and for The woman to go her way.
We (women) are worth a lot, we create our households, we raise our children and are the main caregivers for us to be taken for granted.
Thanks for sharing." -Bori.
Bori
Love's in need of human detox:
Love organs are the main sanctuary of love, life, and lineage, this organ has such a crucial role. Everything depends on the way we use the love organ. A masculine energy initiated the first violation of the f...eminine being misled at the onset of the first human generation. The departure from the sweet safety of divine sexuality became the habitual confusion as a man or a woman preys on someone for selfish gratification, everyone loses in this game, the creator as well.
As men, it is our responsibility to respect and protect women, if gettin' mine causes you to lose your position or mine then that is the mentality of a thief. The more we seek after original sexuality ( which is good to the last drop and then some ) and insures that we will care for our lover as a way of life, then the universe will celebrate our commitment to love which did not come from humans but allows us to be human.
So in conclusion, to scar up your eternal spirit to get your freak on is unfortunate and leads to ruin. Woman is sacred femininity and the author of love is looking for real men and women to enjoy original sexuality. - Adruma Victoria
photo: Maitrieya Jessie Lotus picture of the embrace
Tena koutou katoa Whanau Kin ~ greetings and salutations Family Kin. I recognise you all and acknowledge that YOU and all who are standing with you Ancient and Ancestral are standing there also.
First of all, greetings and salutations to our Spiritual Kin in every manifestation which is seen and unseen. To our Ancients and Ancestors who stand with us in all of our Earthly journeys, I give thanks and appreciation for their guidance and support. To our Earthly Kin of every Rainbowed hue, I say welcome and come forward to the summit that is friendship and Family Kinship.
At the base of all Sacredness is relationship. Such sacredness is accorded to every lifeform as a fact innate of BEing ...of existing. One has no need to 'earn' this reality. It simply IS the power of Life to name itself even in our own images, which includes the mirror of possibilities that is 'ego Self'.
Every BEing is part of Life's own yearning for itself. HOW this comes about is as elusive and enigmatic as it is for some plagued by rules or undertaken upon a landscape of deception and strange coloured ethics. However it occurs, life is still calling forth itself in the unfoldments which the cognitive Mind attempts to order, control and too readily over simplify. Perhaps we need to consult our Winged and Four Legged elders about the intrigues of mating ...since they appear to accept the seasons of life a lot more readily than so many two leggeds. Power and Control is a very poor substitute for sacred relationship borne of mutual respect and accord.
In my own cultural milieu 'marriage' did not exist as it does in a modernist pseudo Christianised diasporic expression. MOEA is a state of relationship when two decide to cohabit sexually ...bearing in mind the Tribal long house is a place of collective gathering and relationship. If one chose to initiate relationship, it is done in the fullness of the tribal reality. This is what 'formalises' the recognition with the usual social sanctions which rest on respectful group to group inter relationships.
It is good to remember how our Ancients organised themselves in the circumstances in which they found themselves. Respectful relationships not only occurs between a man and a woman. Pro creation of Human BEings is not the only basis for 'mating rituals'. Life is the ultimate Parent of itself. Is what is occurring Life giving? Ought unhappy people who no longer trust in mutual respect within their relationships be 'required' to stay in such arrangements? I don't know. In my situation as a Tribalz Woman, my support systems are broader than a single life partner. Perhaps there is a need to look at the reasons for individuating partnerships which in some cases places far to much emphasis on that single event to provide for one's myriad of social needs. No single person can actually meet all of our Human needs, nor ought they be expected to.
I hear the terms love and wonder if we mean unconditional ...unconditioned by past suffering, and disappointment without malice, free to associate from an open Heart without fear. I wonder. ~ Mereana Taki
Septembre 3, 2010
Mereana Taki's great beauty from sea, land & stars. . .
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