"If you are too much technique-oriented you will miss the mystery of Tantra. That is pseudo Tantra that is based on techniques because if techniques are there, ego will be there, controlling. Then you will be DOING it, and doing is the problem, doing brings the doer. Tantra has to be a non-doing; it cannot be technical.
You can learn techniques. You can learn certain breathing so that the coitus can become longer. If you breathe very very slowly, if you breathe without any hurry, then the coitus will become longer. But you are controlling. It will not be wild and it will not be innocent, and it will not be meditation either. It will be MIND. How can it be meditation? The mind will be controlling there. You cannot even breathe fast, you have to keep your breathing slow. If the breathing is slow then ejaculation will take a longer time, because for ejaculation to happen the breathing has to be fast and chaotic. Now, this is technique but not Tantra.
Real Tantra is not technique but love. Is not technique, but prayer. Is not head-oriented but a relaxation into the heart. Please remember it. Many books have been written on Tantra. They all talk about technique. But the real Tantra has nothing to do with technique. The real Tantra cannot be written about. The real Tantra has to be imbibed. How to imbibe real Tantra? You will have to transform your whole approach." – author, Tantric Spirituality
You can learn techniques. You can learn certain breathing so that the coitus can become longer. If you breathe very very slowly, if you breathe without any hurry, then the coitus will become longer. But you are controlling. It will not be wild and it will not be innocent, and it will not be meditation either. It will be MIND. How can it be meditation? The mind will be controlling there. You cannot even breathe fast, you have to keep your breathing slow. If the breathing is slow then ejaculation will take a longer time, because for ejaculation to happen the breathing has to be fast and chaotic. Now, this is technique but not Tantra.
Real Tantra is not technique but love. Is not technique, but prayer. Is not head-oriented but a relaxation into the heart. Please remember it. Many books have been written on Tantra. They all talk about technique. But the real Tantra has nothing to do with technique. The real Tantra cannot be written about. The real Tantra has to be imbibed. How to imbibe real Tantra? You will have to transform your whole approach." – author, Tantric Spirituality
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