One of the things we have to do is allow women to express themselves the way they need to, the way they want to on their terms. It serves us well to see them through their eyes. How would we be better men without this approach? It requires listening and listening is hard to do if you are 'macking', thinking you are the 'shit'! Macking is a way of avoiding the truths to bed a woman he must think is just a whore, a bitch to justify his behavior. It is an infantile way of subjecting the ego to the torment of being oblivious to the blind actions of undressing a woman to get her without seeing her soul in her eyes, or looking into her eyes to the blind spots of your gaze.
If a man grows up from this he will contend with the demons he stirred within her and himself face to face.
Gregory E. Woods, Keeper of Stories
April 10, 2017
|Capree Washington by Roland Dawson (2016)|
Fierce woman's intensity is the fire, the draw to her. It is something this power! Women like this require something of the spirit to match the fire within, and something dangerous to the unemployed. Why enter money into it? It is what inevitably comes into the conversation. - Dawn Wolf, Keeper of Stories 4/10/17